Law School Loans

Federal Loan Consolidation
Private Loan Consolidation
Bar Loans
Law School Tuition Loans
Government Relations
School Partnership Program
My Account
About us
Account Login
User Name:
Password:
Forgot your User name or Password?
New users: Register Today!
  Student Loan Consolidation Exclusively for Attorneys and Law Students
Don't Let Money Mangle Your Relationship



Tell Others View Comments Post a Comment
 
There's no more emotionally charged topic than money. Except, maybe, sofas and sectionals. When it comes to matters of taste and finances, everyone wants his or her own way.

Country vs. contemporary. Cash vs. credit. It's not that big of a stretch to see how couples come to blows over sofa styles, saving, and spending. Home magazine offered some sound relationship advice about keeping the decorating peace in the household. These four decorating tips for two can also be easily applied to money management. Grab a throw pillow and settle in:

Listen up: Instead of talking in the abstract, go shopping and point out things that you like and dislike — and be specific. ("Love the Lucite table legs, hate the cheetah-print runner.") Same goes for money issues. List out your short-, medium-, and long-term goals. Chances are a few will require some money needs to meet them. Also, write down what expenses (your own, not your partner's) get your goat. Now exchange lists and read without judgment, please. Compare, combine, and compromise. Which leads us to...
Give a little, get a little: Compromising is much more palatable if you know you'll get your way in a few areas. He likes chrome, she likes oak. How about an oak sideboard with a chrome Deco lamp? Same goes for budgeting. Come up with an amount each partner can spend every month without question. As for medium- and long-term expenses, come up with a plan that you can both live with and look forward to achieving.

Try a third party: When emotions run high in budgeting and widescreen TV placement, get a neutral third opinion. Plug your plan into a personal finance program like Motley Fool Inside Value pick Intuit 's (Nasdaq: INTU) Quicken, fellow Inside Value pick Microsoft 's (Nasdaq: MSFT) Money, or the planning tool included with TMF Money Advisor. There's no arguing with the black-and-white numbers. And if there is, consider taking your budget talk public with a fee-only financial advisor. Nothing inspires civility like someone sitting behind a desk in a suit.

Bring on the memories: Remember your first date? What did you do? How much did it cost? Who paid? And what was the rent on that first apartment that was such a dump? There you go, you're laughing and recalling the sweet nothings that drew you two kids together in the first place. Money doesn't have to be a sore spot in your relationship. Keep reminding yourselves of those strong bonds that attracted you to each other.

Savings for two

Now that you two are all lovey-dovey again, it's time to curl up in front of the filing cabinet. In addition to always having a date for New Year's Eve, there are many financial advantages to being a twosome.

No one is happier to see you married than your mother, but your insurance agent is pretty giddy, too. Car insurers see stability (and safer driving) in matrimony and reward those who tie the knot with lower premiums. Further discounts come to couples who combine auto policies with renters' or homeowners' coverage with a single company, because they're bigger (and better) customers.

Where else can officially hitched twosomes see savings?

At work: Closely compare benefit plans for duplication. For example, if your spouse can cover your health insurance, maybe you can go for some other options such as a cafeteria plan, additional vacation time, supplemental life insurance, or dental coverage for the dog.

At the bank: No matter what banking setup you choose (a single combined account, two separate accounts, his, hers, and ours...), be sure that your bank knows you're legally bound. Accounts that are linked may qualify for lower fees or higher interest rates, which usually require a minimum deposit across accounts.

In your bills: Sharing dish-washing duty is only part of living under a single roof. Now you get to split the cable bill, the newspaper subscription, and lawn-care charges! What about food and clothes? Take advantage of being a bigger consumer by buying the half-gallon rather than the quart of milk, the case of wine, or the really big bag of Doritos. Motley Fool Stock Advisor pick Costco (Nasdaq: COST) was tailor-made for couples.

What to do with all that dough you two lovebirds are saving? How about using it for some friendly competition? Set up mock portfolios, pick stocks, and see who's the better investor.

Oh, and treat your mother-in-law to dinner out once in a while.

Intuit and Microsoft are Inside Value picks. Costco is a Stock Advisor pick. For a 30-day free trial to the newsletter(s) of your choice, click here.

For more couples money therapy, check out The Motley Fool's Guide to Couples & Cash: How to Handle Money With Your Honey. Dayana Yochim owns none of the companies mentioned in this article, though she has enough bad bridesmaid dresses to attend any of their future mergers.

This feature may not be reproduced or distributed electronically, in print or otherwise without the written permission of uclick and Universal Press Syndicate.



This feature may not be reproduced or distributed electronically, in print or otherwise without the written permission of uclick and Universal Press Syndicate.
 


Article Title : Don't Let Money Mangle Your Relationship
Comment not found for this article.
Comment
 
+ Consolidate Your Private or Federal Student Loans Now! (Save Thousands!!)
Up-to-date information is outdated information.
Get it up-to-the-minute from Law School Loans.

At Law School Loans, America's top law school lender, we employ some of the best financial advisers and finance journalists in the student lending industry. Be sure you're getting the most accurate data from the most trusted source, and stay up-to-the-minute on your own student loans!

Just use the RSS feed below and add this to any of the channels you use to receive blogs, podcasts, and other syndicated material.

Click here to sign up for our weekly Newswire now!


Your Name: Your E-mail Address:

We respect your privacy.
Friend's name: E-mail address:
Include a Message:
+ Privacy Policy

Free Ebook With All Registrations
I just want to thank the representative at Law School Loans who assisted me. She was the only one I talked to who knew what she was talking about. Everyone else left my questions unanswered so I was really confused about my consolidation. But thanks to Law School Loans and their knowledgeable representatives, I now understand exactly what's going to happen with my loan...
- Matt T.  Lawrence, KS
5 Most Dangerous Trends of Student Loan Companies
Your Federal Benefits Law School Loans Guarantees Your Borrower Benefits

If you are still in-school, you may reserve your consolidation for graduation with Law School Loans. By signing and returning your application now, you will be guaranteed the current low rates on your consolidation, and you will not have to think about your consolidation again until you enter repayment.

There is now a mad dash to consolidate. Everyone wants to reduce his or her new, higher interest rates--be sure to get in your application now to ensure timely processing.
Newswire

Important interest rate changes, valuable new programs, and everything you need to know about your loans and repayment... sign up for breaking news updates from Law School Loans!
Email:

+ most recent newsletter
+ newswire archives
A few minutes on the phone or online could save you $600 a month or more on your student loan payments.
or
Call (800) 659-8344
-CLICK HERE- to request an appointment with one of our expert loan counselors.
Benefits of Federal Loan Consolidation with Law School Loans
Additional Information:
Repayment Options
Frequently Asked Questions
Retain Your Government Benefits
Why the Government Wants to Help You
About Us
Press Room
Glossary of Terms
What Will You Do With All The Extra Money Law School Loans Saves You???
Advice from Law School Loans:
Planning for Law School
Kennedy Introduces Legislation That Would Alter Federal Financial Aid

New Trend in Education Finance Counseling Programs

No Threat to Federal Student Loan Availability

Harvard Law School to Waive Tuition for 3Ls

Pennsylvania State University Switches to Direct Loan Program

Congress Urges Secretary of Education to Take FFELP Loan Action

ABA Releases Report on Law School Enrollment

Legislation Could Simplify Financial Aid Application Process

New Jersey Loan Guarantor and Attorney General Reach Settlement

Higher Education Act Renewed

Major Lender Exits FFEL Program

Investigations into Study-Abroad Programs

No Comprehensive Analysis of Cuts to FFEL Program, Secretary Says

Don't Look for Monsters

IRS Reminds Students of ''Tax-Advantaged Education Expenses''

Bush to Sign Conference Agreement

Borrowers Must Hurry to Receive Savings Before the October 1 Deadline!

California Students Get Relief, 2007-2008 State Budget Passed

Southern Illinois University President Accused of Plagiarism

Study Finds More Preparation Needed for Transition from High School to College

Wisconsin Students Awaiting Approval of WHEG Funding

Spellings announces $12 million in grants for tribally controlled schools

Four employees of Crown College under fire

Spellings Urges Colleges and Lenders to Comply with New Loan Rules

A New College Education Plan

Senator Herb Kohl introduces bill to help students remain out of debt

Study says academic tracking a major barrier to college attendance

Ithaka Advocates Online Publishing by Universities

Schools to Boycott U.S. News & World Report Survey

President Bush Threatens to Veto Appropriations Bill for Departments of Education, Labor, and Health and Human Services

Colleges to Start Policing Students Who Download Music

Virginia launches six-year plan to align K-12 standards with university-level education

Michigan tuition hike is daunting

College Admissions Are Still Beyond the Reach of the Economically Underprivileged

NASFAA Members Respond to Code of Conduct

New Hampshire University System Approves Tuition and Aid Increase

Free Tuition for Massachusetts Students: A Curse or a Blessing?

The Focus is Now on College Performance

U.S. Energy Department Going Greener

Senators Urge Spellings to Refrain from Impo